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As Black History Month comes to an end.
One of my friends on Facebook asked the question - WHO STARTED CHEATING ON WHO - women or men? At first it had me thinking. And just like an epiphany, it came to me. This is apart of that Willie Lynch Letter I had read about. This is the same letter that told the slave masters to put slave against slave starting with complexion. This letter was so deep and detailed and the selling point was that these tactics where going to last for generations upon generations. And look at that - generations later, the same tactics they used to break down the slaves and divide our people; or the same mentality and mind sets that so many of us have come accustomed to and yet we haven't realized it.
In that letter, Willie Lynch told the slave masters to find the healthiest stud on the plantation and have him sleep with just about everybody. His goal was procreation of strong hard working mule like men. Not to have them fall in love with each woman they slept with. A woman can only have so many babies in a year. So in order to create this strong man at a rapid pace, he had to slept with multiple women. Hence - men started cheating on women first.
Even before Willie Lynch, in several tribes it was common to have more than one wife. It's my opinion that cheating is a man's trait, sad part is women have perfected it. She Said men started cheating on women.
In that letter, Willie Lynch told the slave masters to find the healthiest stud on the plantation and have him sleep with just about everybody. His goal was procreation of strong hard working mule like men. Not to have them fall in love with each woman they slept with. A woman can only have so many babies in a year. So in order to create this strong man at a rapid pace, he had to slept with multiple women. Hence - men started cheating on women first.
Even before Willie Lynch, in several tribes it was common to have more than one wife. It's my opinion that cheating is a man's trait, sad part is women have perfected it. She Said men started cheating on women.
